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I found this article to have an interesting take on shared living and life insurance. I know I always try to look at your articles form the perspective of a college student but I truly believe in the importance of your words as I start to think about the financial implications of future living situations. Whether I have roommate or long-term relationship in the future, the idea that shared living can create a higher living standard per adult in the household, makes a lot of sense and helps me to reframe my mindset on costs vs. benefits. When you also talk about Life Insurance it reminded me to think about how important it is to not just assess current expenses but how long term financial obligations could change in the future and to take that into consideration!!

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It makes perfect sense that your perspective is based on your age, education, and experience. As you have found, your financial life is measurable with some uncertainty.

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I think shared living is very beneficial, especially for people my age who are still figuring out where they want to live, what they want to do, and how to manage their finances. It offers a sense of financial relief by splitting all costs of rent and utilities. The point made about life insurance is also very important, especially when living with a significant other because it can ensure financial stability if something were to happen.

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I appreciated that in this article how you outline shared living, initially starting in college where your roommate helps cheapen your cost of living, and then moving towards having a family. Stating that having a roommate in the beginning is very cost effective, which is true, and then moving towards providing for a famliy and instituting a life insurance policy, which would hopefully ensure security in case of your absence. I was wondering in the second stage of this timeline, if there were any other policies, or financial instruments that you could use to help ensure financial stability for your dependents.

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The other source of income disruption is a disability. Disability insurance can be thought of as a rainy day fund triggered by a income disruptive illness or accident.

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I really liked how this article explained the economic benefits of shared living and how it ties into life insurance needs. Splitting costs like rent and utilities has made a big difference for me personally, and it was interesting to think about how shared living raises the standard of living for everyone involved. The connection between economic dependency and life insurance is something I hadn’t thought about before, but it makes total sense, especially for married couples.

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Splitting costs like rent and utilities can boost financial stability, which I’ve seen in my own life. I split rent with a roommate, and though it is not the same as splitting finances with a partner, I can apply this article to my own circumstances and it makes me realize just how much a shared living affects finances. The idea that shared living creates a higher per-adult standard of living makes total sense, and it’s something I did not consider in the context of life insurance before. The connection between economic dependency and life insurance is something I hadn’t thought much about before. If one partner passes away, the survivor could face serious financial challenges, especially if their shared resources supported their lifestyle. This makes me realize how important it is to plan for the unexpected and not just for myself. This is valuable advice as I am getting older and plan to get married and start a family.

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Awesome takeaway, Charlotte!

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I really liked the way this article delved into what shared living can do vs what it's like when someone is on their own. I personally think that shared living is an incredible way for people of my age who are either in college, just started work, or are just unsure of what they want to do live a bit cheaper, even though they are giving up things like having a bit more privacy. I live in an apartment with a roommate and have found it to be so much better than being alone, not only because of the cheaper bills, but also for the social interactions we all need to have. When thinking about shared living if married, I found it really interesting about how life insurance doesn't need to be bought unless that person is the economic dependent one. If you were a single person who didn't need to live with someone else, do you think it is a bad idea to do it anyways or at that point does it come down to personal preference?

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Personal preference. You may value living alone and that value can be measured by your give up in living standard.

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Shared living is such a win for people our age who are still finding their place and learning what to do and what not to do in the real world. Whether it is a significant other or a friend, living with someone else takes away a lot of the stress of bills. When it comes to a significant other, life insurance clearly plays a vital role in financial planning. It's important to assess one's personal and financial situation to determine the appropriate coverage needed to ensure stability for dependents or partners. How can individuals best assess their life insurance needs to ensure they are adequately prepared for unforeseen circumstances?

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Determine the household's average living standard per adult. Then, if one dies prematurely, evaluate how much cash is needed to keep the survivor at the standard to which they have grown accustomed. The tool is built-in to MaxiFi Planner.

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I found the discussion on the economic benefits of shared living really interesting, especially how it connects to life insurance needs. It’s a great reminder that long term relationships often come with financial interdependencies that should be considered in planning for the future

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One part of the article I never really thought about was life insurance only being needed if there is economic dependency. When single, life insurance is not needed but if you have a partner, you may need it depending on your current living situation. For someone who will be navigating these decision soon, what are some practical steps to evaluate whether life insurance is a priority?

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Step 1: if married or partnered, develop the optimal living standard for the household.

Step 2: Look at the output for the plan. MaxiFi automatically calculates life insurance need for each spouse. There is more on the topic in Chapter 8 of Economics-based Personal Finance.

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I found this article to be helpful at explaining the importance of maintaining financial autonomy despite your living situation. This is crucial to maximizing your standard of living and providing a safety net to ensure financial stability in the long run. I find it interesting how the benefits of shared living are attractive yet can potentially do a lot of damage.

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Once you lose them, they can be missed.

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While this focuses on couples, how do similar economic dynamics apply to non-romantic shared living arrangements, like roommates or multigenerational households? Is it the same concept?

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Generally, yes, with less durability. A few college students sharing an apartment for a couple of years is a short-run shared living, lifestyle-enhancing arrangement.

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This highlights the importance of still maintaining a degree of financial autonomy even while you are in a long-term relationship and shared living situation. It allows for personal security, freedom of choice, and the ability to contribute to individual and shared financial goals.

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Your interpretation shared living "highlights....financial autonomy" is very interesting, because it is a tie that binds. The benefits of shared living are seductive. Once lost there is going to be financial pain.

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This article helps to explain the financial dependencies that can develop in long-term relationships, showing how shared expenses can lead to a higher standard of living that could be at risk in the event of a loss. Additionally, it emphasizes the importance of life insurance within a partnership and encourages mindful financial planning in order to prepare for unexpected situations.

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In the more unfortunate circumstance of a divorce, there is a flip side to shared living. Moving apart after living together has the added cost of lost shared living benefits.

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When it comes to shared living I have noticed a difference of cost that I am no longer bearing on my own. As I currently have a roommate who helps pays for rents and utilities, I have seen my fixed expenses go down in return we both have a little less "me" time as the article suggests. On the topic of life insurance, I can see why you wouldn't really need it as a single person, but if you have a spouse and you are living at a standard that was not achieve on your own. You would still want that cushion of economic backing incase of pre-mature death.

Thank you for the insight!

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Thank you Carlo. Yes, and the cushion you mentioned is measurable!

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Shared living really does bring surprising financial rewards, particularly there being less individual expenses and increasing the standard of living per-adult. It also points out what the financial impact a partner's absence could have, which shows the importance of life insurance in maintaining that standard. Pooling resources in a long-term partnership can truly make a big financial difference.

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Carter, interesting to me is your surprise and I agree. A seemingly minor difference when measured over a long period of time adds up.

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Interesting topic shared. We often don't think about the economic benefits of shared living and this article points out one of the most obvious advantages; dual income. This dual income increases the per adult living standard, which is the ultimate goal.

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Dual income + a few obvious expenses to share that can make a huge difference in the financial life of participants.

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