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Josh Friedlander's avatar

If you step back from the story, there’s incredible absurdity in what we consider normative work behavior. Warren Buffett has joked that doing work you don’t like in the hopes it will help you find work you might later is like saving up sex for your old age. The very idea of retirement is a bit of a fraud, in part because of the difficulty of saving enough to do it (especially in lieu of defined benefit plans that no longer exist for most workers), in part because you’re trading money spent in youth for money spent in old age (airfare vs medical care, anyone?!), and because many people never benefit from the trade at all (either dying or becoming too debilitated in old age to make much use of the time, and crucially because doing nothing (the mainstream retirement dream) is pretty much guaranteed to kill the spirit and the body (and quickly). I don’t think some smoky backroom cabal enables this narrative and its concomitant aesthetic of palm trees and silver years spent holding grandchildren, but there are certainly a lot of beneficiaries of this dubious construct, among them the entire investment management industry. I’d be very curious to see what the real purchasing power of that ~$9 million is when our couple retires as well as what kind of life they can expect it to buy them then. The framing of the problem (how much money will they have) is perfect Wildean cynicism, focused on the money and not its value. And so we tend to think about retirement as an end state. What we should do is question whether we are in this earth to subsist on expensive, rushed, and often unfulfilling 1-2 week vacations that serve as distraction rather than doing everything we can to milk our time on here while we have the vitality to do it. Some people will even rationalize a year off as a chance for our couple to recharge their batteries, meaning gain the power necessary to go back to trading the best years of their lives for some sub-vital years on the backend. This is madness.

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Brooke Barnes's avatar

The decision to take a mini-retirement demonstrates the importance of having a good work-life and personal-life balance. Although taking some time off might seem appealing, it's important to consider how this might affect your long-term financial stability. This post does a great job at portraying the potential outcomes and provides guidance to determining if taking a mini-retirement is in your best interest.

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